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Picking yourself up after failure in Civils 2023 + failure is a distraction

लाइफ में न , रायता कोई भी फैलाये , साफ़ खुद ही करना पड़ता है |

It takes about 3 days for the Civil Services examination final results to sink in.

Not getting through in the final merit list sometimes becomes worse than not qualifying the prelims – for sometimes, it may alter the trajectory of our personal lives.

And sometimes, more than one life.

This is also the time, when you cry, and you suddenly realise that because now you are grown up, you cannot.

In public!

So you cry in the washroom, sometimes in the shower, sometimes in the privacy of you rooms. And sometimes, you just practice absorbing your tears in within your eyes, lest they fall down and people know.

It is worse if you are at home. Your parents look at your face and look worried as they age. And looking at them may make you feel even worse.

If you, or someone you know is going through this, you may share it with them.

And here are some thoughts for the fallen ones – for forumias has always been the community of the fallen.

https://forumias.com/blog/failure-is-a-distraction-making-sense-of-the-final-results-of-cse-2023/





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O man drinking 3 bottles of sting everyday? Do you think this is wise? Even those guys write 'do not drink more than 2 in a day.' 

Honestly it is very very harmful. I am going to mend that this year. Actually, it impaired my thinking skills during giving GATE as well. I qualified it with an average rank. But it was my choice to drink Sting to "enhance" my focus and see, what has happened. 


For CSE Maths 2024 analysis: https://forumias.com/post/detail/Mathematics-Optional-2024-Paper-Analysis-1727851791
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@tedmosby try 30 grapes, neat, no juicing or mixing other fruits.


Ayushi7,
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@tedmosby try 30 grapes, neat, no juicing or mixing other fruits.


Will discuss that in PM xD 


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