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What's the road ahead ?? @neyawn sir

Been preparing for CSE for 3 years gave three attempts, failing all prelims. decided to take a pause to reflect and regroup. now planning for CSE 2025, My study habits are a mess, my mental stress is at a peak. 

HUMANBEING,Chirag_Zalaand2 otherslike this
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We are floating in similar boats. Would be glad if we could correspond. 
lovee712,
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@Dodopopololo would like that.


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जीवन में सुख दुःख निरन्तर आते जाते रहते हैं,

सुख तो सभी भोग लेते हैं, दुःख धीर ही सहते हैं।

मनुज दुग्ध से, दनुज रुधिर से, अमर सुधा से जीते हैं,

किन्तु हलाहल भव-सागर का शिव-शंकर ही पीते हैं।

Keep going and take care of yourself  🙏🏻

Magnetoz,dravidpujaraand2 otherslike this
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I feel we need to detach ourself for sometime in our daily routine where one does not think about exam, results, future etc. Hobby can play that anchor role as it connects us to self. I have not cleared Mains stage twice and entire routine becomes a vicious cycle where several weeks become unproductive. 

The best way to come out of mental stress and vicious loop is to break it by forced discipline for sometime until body and mind gets used to it.

In my case, Getting up early in morning, doing Pranayama and Exercise(For Detachment part), then Following a Routine with good breaks & Hobby as filler works. Then you can take half day break on weekly basis. Limit overthinking specially at night. I know its tough but when it happens start doing any activity like revising notes or listening to some audio etc.

Dedicate a fixed worry time where one can write all sorts of anxious thoughts or stress factors. One can also fix a shutdown time like after dinner, not thinking deeply about exam, results, future etc. Postpone that thinking to next day, else it can affect sleep cycle. 

I know it's difficult to follow perfectly on all days as we are not machines, but in medium-long run it should be a consistent routine which maximises your utility & productivity. 


the1sapien,
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@sapien94 been doing a lot of things for the past 3-4 weeks, life in general has been good and I feel good which in turn is positively impacting the study. 

BTW thank you for writing in such great detail, it will definitely can help any aspirant who might visit this discussion.


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