CSE 2023: Plan/ Strategy/ Daily Routine
Hello everyone. I don't know after how long i am writing something on forum. Kuch logon ko yaad honge;) Btw, I hope all of you are doing good.:)
Feb- June were pathetic months of my life and it got even more worse when results were announced, as i failed again. So, after giving two attempts i thought to take a break from preparation, and think about other alternatives, meanwhile i have decided to appear in CSE 2024( after analysing all my mistakes)
Currently, preparing for state pcs(UPPCS).
Also,have started doing Master's( Master in Sociology).
Kuch baatein hain, which i wanted to share with you guys. Personal level pe nothing was going good, nothing, thodi si cheezein sambhali hain abhi, but after a lot of destruction.
At one point of time, i was so frustrated that somebody asked me to attend councelling sessions, and till now i attend these sessions. It really helps. It takes time, but eventually you start to feel good and positive.
Arey special mention to the most annoying/disrespectful people in this world "Rishtedaar"( m#@..#@@@)un logon ne toh koi kami hi nahi baaki rkhi thi, aur kahin galti se koi taunt reh gya toh wo ye taunt poora ke deta tha.."Arey aapka beta/ beti nikal lega/legi paper" iss dialogue se leke kya soch k aapke bete/beti ne ye preparation shuru ki".
Toh inn kuch mahino mein pta lga ki Supreme court wagarh mein judge toh faltu baithe hain, yahan toh har ghar har gali mein judge hain(without even required qualification).
Inn sab ka seedha asar dikha, health pe, relationship pe, padhai pe, but who cares(even i didn't care about all these and ended up destroying my own peace of mind)
Kabhi kabhi sochte hain ki "what a life it was" se "what kind of life is this" tak aane mein keval 2 saal aur 2 attempt lge.
Khair, baatein toh bahot hain but koi nahi, everybody is dealing with some issues. Nothing new..:)
Achi baat ye hai ki I am already feeling good. Acha lgta hai iss portal pe. Also, kabhi waqt aur haalat ache hue toh will share some of the pictures I clicked.:)
And even if i am not appearing in CSE 2023, I will still be active here from now on.
Ek aur cheez, Novel padhne ka shaukh tha(college time mein) wo ab fir se shuru kiya hai. Toh agar kisi ko achi novel suggest krni ho toh please feel free to tell( Kindly DM).
Have a good day PEEPUL..❤️
Itna kyu sochtae ho? Even I am facing the similar things but I don't care about others except mom & dad.
Mere bare mai to whatsApp status par likh kai taunt martae hai 😄but I don't care man. Itna time hi nahi milta yar. But ha sabka whatsApp status ka screenshot leke rakhtae ja rahe one day I will share.
Deepak802,DMI don't how you all going to perceive it or judge what am writing. But I never faced this rishtedar n close people doubting or taunting thing at least in this preparation journey! You're not the only people@Thunderstorm &@DM but I've interacted with many people facing this problem. I don't know why am writing this but there should be some mechanism to overcome this! I mean you just can't keep on accepting garbage from people na.
The things which ensured protection in my case are-
- Never telling anyone except close family what am doing with my life(people are slowly getting to know)
- No unnecessary contact numbers exchanges
- Absolutely off social media
- No interest in other's lives(am not saying that you guys are having haha)
- Conversations only with people who can add value(hell selfish here, can feel the repercussions but chalega)
- Talking to family only about things n people am concerned about.
In my case the problems arise because of my own judgment & self worth calculations by my own self & not anyone else saying anything.
@DM bhai, i have deleted all the contacts (relatives k)..😂and unknown number hum Utha te nahi..😂Btw, you are right, now i follow the same thing keval maa papa, baaki jaayen jahan mann kre.
I don't have anyone's number in my mobile, except mom & dad and some mentors with whom I talk weekly .
Wai to mummy bata deti hai tumhare bare mai aisae likhta hai kuch log u have to take badla from him.( exam clear karkai na ki fight karkai) tab mai 2× speed sai aur padhnae lagta hu. I take it as a motivation dose not as a badla lena hai phone karkai.
@Lawstice bro, i am literally the same jaisa you have described.😅 Literally..!.but wahi hai there are some days when these bakwas(relatives ki) works as torture..And one thing i would say ki, my decision of being off from all the social media Platform actually helped. , i was never on FB, INSTA, Anywhere except WhatsApp but now i don't have whatsapp also, only telegram.You are absolutely right (the pointers you have given) Regarding information sharing, i never share my feelings or any life event with anyone except few( some close peepul only) .
but wahi hai there are some days when these bakwas(relatives ki) works as torture..---literally same
@DM bhai, i have deleted all the contacts (relatives k)..😂and unknown number hum Utha te nahi..😂Btw, you are right, now i follow the same thing keval maa papa, baaki jaayen jahan mann kre.
I don't have anyone's number in my mobile, except mom & dad and some mentors with whom I talk weekly .
Wai to mummy bata deti hai tumhare bare mai aisae likhta hai kuch log u have to take badla from him.( exam clear karkai na ki fight karkai) tab mai 2× speed sai aur padhnae lagta hu. I take it as a motivation dose not as a badla lena hai phone karkai.
Yh sab dekh ke lagta h ki my existence is pretty insignificant! lol
Deepak802,
@Thunderstorm The fact that you've taken the initiative to correct the apparent problems is literally one of the most difficult steps since it's extremely difficult to tame the mind. The way I've always looked at it is that every experience has made one expectant and used to a particular situation and has provided a list of hit and miss methods to overcome that.
@DM bhai, i have deleted all the contacts (relatives k)..😂and unknown number hum Utha te nahi..😂Btw, you are right, now i follow the same thing keval maa papa, baaki jaayen jahan mann kre.
I don't have anyone's number in my mobile, except mom & dad and some mentors with whom I talk weekly .
Wai to mummy bata deti hai tumhare bare mai aisae likhta hai kuch log u have to take badla from him.( exam clear karkai na ki fight karkai) tab mai 2× speed sai aur padhnae lagta hu. I take it as a motivation dose not as a badla lena hai phone karkai.
Yh sab dekh ke lagta h ki my existence is pretty insignificant! lol
Why is it so? 😄
Hi friends,
So I have decided to move on from upsc preparation. It was impacting my health - mental and physical.
I have attempts and age left but I do not know if/when I will come back to chase this goal again. May be someday /may be never.
Thanks everyone for your kind suggestions and tips which you gave whenever I needed help.
It is difficult to stop thinking about something you have thought about and immersed yourself in hardwork for years.
On a side note : I think I can write a post/something on " What not to do for upsc". But then again who will read? And Why to scratch my old wounds and suffer pain again? Nevermind.
May everyone get fruits of their hardwork.
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As your name suggests tum brave ho to admit this. Many people stay on in this preparation merely due to the sunken cost fallacy. But if there’s one thing I know its that nothing truly goes to waste, this might sound really cliche but that is the truth. Jo seekha h yaha, and I don’t mean merely in terms of knowledge, but in terms of mental resilience and work ethic will stand you in really good stead. So jao mere jabaaz khub aandhi toofan karo!
@DM bhai, i have deleted all the contacts (relatives k)..😂and unknown number hum Utha te nahi..😂Btw, you are right, now i follow the same thing keval maa papa, baaki jaayen jahan mann kre.
I don't have anyone's number in my mobile, except mom & dad and some mentors with whom I talk weekly .
Wai to mummy bata deti hai tumhare bare mai aisae likhta hai kuch log u have to take badla from him.( exam clear karkai na ki fight karkai) tab mai 2× speed sai aur padhnae lagta hu. I take it as a motivation dose not as a badla lena hai phone karkai.
Yh sab dekh ke lagta h ki my existence is pretty insignificant! lol
Why is it so? 😄
Koi hamare par bhi sly maro taunt maro!😅
Deepak802,crikeymateHey, Thunder! So happy to see you back here! And, glad you're doing good now.Hello everyone. I don't know after how long i am writing something on forum. Kuch logon ko yaad honge;) Btw, I hope all of you are doing good.:)
Feb- June were pathetic months of my life and it got even more worse when results were announced, as i failed again. So, after giving two attempts i thought to take a break from preparation, and think about other alternatives, meanwhile i have decided to appear in CSE 2024( after analysing all my mistakes)
Currently, preparing for state pcs(UPPCS).
Also,have started doing Master's( Master in Sociology).
Kuch baatein hain, which i wanted to share with you guys. Personal level pe nothing was going good, nothing, thodi si cheezein sambhali hain abhi, but after a lot of destruction.
At one point of time, i was so frustrated that somebody asked me to attend councelling sessions, and till now i attend these sessions. It really helps. It takes time, but eventually you start to feel good and positive.
Arey special mention to the most annoying/disrespectful people in this world "Rishtedaar"( m#@..#@@@)un logon ne toh koi kami hi nahi baaki rkhi thi, aur kahin galti se koi taunt reh gya toh wo ye taunt poora ke deta tha.."Arey aapka beta/ beti nikal lega/legi paper" iss dialogue se leke kya soch k aapke bete/beti ne ye preparation shuru ki".
Toh inn kuch mahino mein pta lga ki Supreme court wagarh mein judge toh faltu baithe hain, yahan toh har ghar har gali mein judge hain(without even required qualification).
Inn sab ka seedha asar dikha, health pe, relationship pe, padhai pe, but who cares(even i didn't care about all these and ended up destroying my own peace of mind)
Kabhi kabhi sochte hain ki "what a life it was" se "what kind of life is this" tak aane mein keval 2 saal aur 2 attempt lge.
Khair, baatein toh bahot hain but koi nahi, everybody is dealing with some issues. Nothing new..:)
Achi baat ye hai ki I am already feeling good. Acha lgta hai iss portal pe. Also, kabhi waqt aur haalat ache hue toh will share some of the pictures I clicked.:)
And even if i am not appearing in CSE 2023, I will still be active here from now on.
Ek aur cheez, Novel padhne ka shaukh tha(college time mein) wo ab fir se shuru kiya hai. Toh agar kisi ko achi novel suggest krni ho toh please feel free to tell( Kindly DM).
Have a good day PEEPUL..❤️
I want you to know this: I don't use any Instant communication App, so even my "Friends" forget my existence for months at a time. You were the only person to wish me Happy New Year, this year.
You are a Beautiful Person, and whatever "Rishtedars" say is a reflection of their inner rotten self, not you.
Hey, everyone! I made this account using a Temporary Phone No, from some site I don't remember, to safeguard my Privacy. I believe in Free Access to Resources. So, if you see any posts from this account Selling anything or trying to scam, they wouldn't be from me. Someone would have gained unauthorized access to this account. Best recourse to prevent such a thing would be to delete the account, but Forum doesn't provide that option.
@DM bhai, i have deleted all the contacts (relatives k)..😂and unknown number hum Utha te nahi..😂Btw, you are right, now i follow the same thing keval maa papa, baaki jaayen jahan mann kre.
I don't have anyone's number in my mobile, except mom & dad and some mentors with whom I talk weekly .
Wai to mummy bata deti hai tumhare bare mai aisae likhta hai kuch log u have to take badla from him.( exam clear karkai na ki fight karkai) tab mai 2× speed sai aur padhnae lagta hu. I take it as a motivation dose not as a badla lena hai phone karkai.
Yh sab dekh ke lagta h ki my existence is pretty insignificant! lol
Why is it so? 😄
Koi hamare par bhi sly maro taunt maro!😅
Aap bahut kismatwale ho😄
Deepak802,Lawstice14/10
- Newspaper
- aptitude
- Optional
- Class
- Revision
Aptitude nahi ho raha. Prelims prep ke time hi hoga.
CA class me to kuchh pal ke liye emotional ho gaya tha mai to. Probably we haven’t yet realised the impacts of Covid on the psychology and consciousness of the society as a whole.
@Thunderstorm best wishes. Remember, people project their fear and insecurities upon you. Ignore them.
Deepak802,morsmodreBtw, i appreciate your decision of being bold and selfish for a moment and making huge difference in your life. All the best Man.. !
And Thanks bro...🤝
Deepak802,crikeymateFriends, I need some help.
This articlefrom August 2022 says:
>>> The personal law do not fall within the definition of ‘laws’ under Article 13 of the Constitution. The validity of a personal law cannot be challenged on the basis of fundamental rights enshrined in the Constitution.
The above position was based on a Judgement of Bombay High Court, in Narasu Appa Mali Case (1951).
HOWEVER, in Sabarimala Case (2018),Justice Chandrachud, who was part of Majority opinion, had said:
>>> Justice D.Y. Chandrachud, in his separate opinion, held that the reasoning given in the Narasu Appa Mali judgment of the Bombay High Court in 1951 was based on flawed premises. Immunising customs and usages, like the prohibition of women in Sabarimala, takes away the primacy of the Constitution.
>>> “Custom or usage cannot be excluded from ‘laws in force’. The decision in Narasu also opined that personal law is immune from constitutional scrutiny. This detracts from the notion that no body of practices can claim supremacy over the Constitution and its vision of ensuring the sanctity of dignity, liberty and equality,” Justice Chandrachud wrote.
Toh, my Question is: Does Justice Chandrachud's Opinion Invalidate the 1951 Judgment?
Does definition of 'Law', with respect to Article 13, include 'Personal Law' or not?
Hey, everyone! I made this account using a Temporary Phone No, from some site I don't remember, to safeguard my Privacy. I believe in Free Access to Resources. So, if you see any posts from this account Selling anything or trying to scam, they wouldn't be from me. Someone would have gained unauthorized access to this account. Best recourse to prevent such a thing would be to delete the account, but Forum doesn't provide that option.
Deepak802,
Done with an extended post mains break. Loved the experience but the scope for improvement is huge. Will have to work on it and ensure that the journey does not go beyond 2023. Still, hope for 2022 remains so fingers crossed.
Will be working for IFoS mains and then shift gears.
Targets:
- Finish ODE
- Forestry - 5,6,7,8
- Newspaper
Made a start. First half was okay but slow and second half was non existent.
Repeating the targets.
Good day people!
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