@tryingsomething thankyou for saying what all you said. Especially this expiry date thing.
I am 29 and my family has already assumed that i don't want to marry or now i will not get anyone.
Everyone keeps making fun that by now i should have two kids. I hvae only 2 attempts left.
Now i dont know what to do. Should i get married or play this upsc gamble for 2 more years.. i bave spent 3 months just thinking .
There seems no way.
Life at home is hell..being treated like i should help in household chores , why am i not doing anything with my life . I can never find a job.
What should one do, when nobody around you can get you..its a different battle altogether.
Then i feel like why am i going through this hell?? But i didn't do anything wrong.
Now the issue is not of exam only..its whether will i get married or end up alone in life
Yesterday my sister was giving me an example of old lady ..living all by herself in a flat..
Said your life will also be same..
@LeoMessi you are too strong person..yes i will definitely give and clear it.
Have not heard the song but definitely will :)
All the best to you too!!!
@Avocado thankyou..yeah covid made it far worse..earlier was living in pg far from this family drama..but ab jo hai..so hai..
Winning is about rising above our problmes i guess.. :)
@unacheivednirvana hahahaha..no offences taken..thanku for this thread..helped to know there are people going through same life shit..
I dont care much about their opinions..its just that when you hear it day in and out
It slowly starts affecting you...like A slow poison..
One taunt here ..another joke there..and slowly they get the worst out of you.
To them i am having the time of my life..i wish they could live my life for just a day or be in my head..
But that's how it is for most people i guess..
That's what society and some families do to people who don't go by their definition of successful life..
Actually i get it all..but sometimes they get to me..
I know entrepreneurs, doctors n many other professsions face same thing..
Its just few in the limelight of all make it a glittery world.
More power to you and All the best :)
