@Stoic honestly speaking ... NO NOT AT ALL.. NOT EVEN IN MY WILDEST DREAMS... i expected to give like 2 attempts at max.. thats the reason i did my postgraduation first ... otherwise i would have never wasted time.. so yes i do agree with you that i didnt see this through.. it hurts.. honestly badly hurts..
but yes thanks to a lot of people here.. i feel they are also in same place so i feel not only me but also others are in same boat.. thanks for your response..
@tryingsomething i am on ALMOST same trajectory.. i had shut down my business for preparation... so i know the pain and my business was even bringing me profit... but as for government teacher.. thats a bit over the top.. u'll have to compete there too.. believe me there u'll have to start from rock bottom...
as far as yuck feeling goes on looking at the syllabus.. i feel we are in same boat..
but ill tell u what my partner says to me when i say the same thing " DO SOMETHING..ITS FINE EVEN IF U DONT DO THE WHOLE... READ 1 PAGE NOT NECCESSARY TO DO 10.. BUT THAT 1 PAGE SHOULD BE READ AS CUROSITY NOT BURDEN... u just need to progress may be a step or mile ... doesnt make difference"..
i know it sounds filmy and preachy but aur koi option h kya?
i know im toooooo late in replying but if u see this.. i wish u all the best.. either u go anyway.. ias or teacher or farmer or bussinessman or house husband or anything.. i hope u succeed in whatever u choose
@Phoebebuffay I feel u sister.... Whatever u have done is enough... Let everything go to hell just fill the goddamn pages... Most important... Baki jo hoga dekha jayega... I know you might feel kya bakwas h yeh but this is what u need at this time... I know u might feel ki aur na ho paega ... But when u have jumped into the river u'll have swim across... Bs maan m soch k jao ki paper bharna h relativity k hisab se...maybe u get through and if u do.. kindly let me know .. as far as the problems go we can talk about it after mains... Msg me... Anytime..
@Phoebebuffay calm down boy!!! U can't change people's opinions & shouldn't try to.. everyone is entitled to their own poison... Let it go!!!
@Phoenix25754 ...
I dnt wish to intrude but can u say few words from my side to your sister " ITS BETTER LIVING ON MY OWN TERMS THAN ENDING UP WITH AN IDIOT WHO TURNS OUT TO MAKE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL!! AS FOR U MY DEAREST U CAN GO AND GET MARRIED WITH AS MUCH MEN AS U WANT!!! MARRY ONE FOR ME TOO!! ITS A FREE COUNTRY!!"
Thank u...
I do know it might seem offensive but it is ..
And to my surprise when I was writing this comment my mother came and read and said that they are right... Ab tumko kese samjhae... I replied koi fayda nahi h... So do the same...
Yes if u want peace of mind... Let them start looking for guys... Just be very picky if they show u... There is no condition that u can't reject people.. right 🤔
Be smart... Dnt try to confront them.. no point only escalation of issue...
Try being diplomatic... Tell them to go on any x y z matrimony... Let them have fun of their lives... U can ultimately reject ... Have fun... Upsc ne tumhe reject kia.. u reject others.. I know it sound mean but at times it's important for self peace...
Please dnt be offended by this
@LeoMessi .. really appreciate your enthusiasm... Keep it up... if you Need help msg me... Plz tag because otherwise I may not see... I hope you reach your goal.. my doctor says 1line when I'm all complaints "STOP CARING ABOUT ANYONE. LISTEN TO EVERYONE BUT DO WHAT YOU WANT"
I know maybe this doesn't make sense but what really does these days..
So jo dil ko acha lge kro
@Phoenix25754 believe me I get u girl... My mother has 2 colleagues above 40 & they are the perfect guinea pig example at my place.. kbhi kbhi dil krta h sadak pe nikal jau.. pehle ladke se shadi krlu.. aur bhag jau.. then I tell myself it's a bad idea.... 🤣
Ab to jeena yaha marna yaha...Dr ne kaha inko na sunna..
Jokes apart... Comment here whenever you feel low... Someone or else will definitely talk u out of it...
It's better to feel light by talking to strangers rather than any FAKE FRIENDS..
Chill kro..
