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Civil Services Mains 2020 Results: In or Out ? Way ahead, gratitude and Pain

The Civils Mains result has been declared. This thread is for sharing your grief , joy , mixed feelings - absolutely anything and everything.



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@AlexanderSupertramp You are not alone. Such people are way too common in our country and I also have the (mis)fortune of knowing a few of them. People are not taking covid seriously at all. For them it is like normal seasonal khaansi zukaam (seasonal flu, cold). But what is more worrying is that I come from a rural background. And people I am talking about live in villages/tier 3 cities. I know an entire family which has covid symptoms but they are not ready to go to the hospital and get themselves tested. One of the relatives was telling my mother the other day that ganga ke ghat pe bahut mitti aa rahin hai is time. However, instead of accepting the seriousness of COVID, the usual response is ki jiska samay aa gaya hai usko kaun bacha sakta hai. Bas ek bahana lag gaya hai. Situation is very grim this time around. Personally, I did not have much anxiety issues last year but this time there is a constant stress and fear of the unknown, especially when some of the close relatives are battling covid.


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chamomile,Jokar
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Just wanted to share this read today 

https://m.dailyhunt.in/news/india/english/the+better+india-epaper-bettind/how+this+ias+officer+cut+nandurbars+singleday+covid19+spike+by+75-newsid-n274451286?s=a&uu=0x8c074e83f20b4d07&ss=pd

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@Sherkhan1428 @Villanelle I also want it. Feb was wasted completely due to health and family problems. Optional Padh lunga! :D


@DramaticAdmiral  I think we will have some certainty by the 2nd week of May. Most probably the guys are waiting for the situation to normalize a bit before coming out with any plans.

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@SergioRamos Postponement or not, I just want some certainty.



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How many of you will be genuinely happy if paper gets postponed?

Only doubt is whether Prelims will be conducted before results 😅

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And me postpone or no postpone se kaphi aage aakar thinking August or September and wishing after October 😀
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@RAGNAROK thanks for sharing. This is really motivating. During these times, when anxiety n helplessness is high, reading this makes me realise that even if I cannot just directly help people now, it is ok. By studying now, I can in the future. 


RAGNAROK,
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I really don't want the exams to be postponed. I just pray and hope things stabilize before June. 
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Btw has the interviews been postponed?
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@Tempo_High_Hain kuch zada hi tempo high hain 


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@palindrome7 This is a very dangerous precedent being set, this is open bribery especially that they are doing it after 2 days of adverse observations by the Court. I had high hopes on Kejriwal but alas.


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Btw has the interviews been postponed?

don't know man....par mujhe subah subah sapna pada tha ki interview postpone ho gaye.....morning dreams do come true😉

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@Akanksha_Jain Nai bhai/behen the more it gets postponed, the more bouts of anxiety I have, my mental health just deteriorates especially with this kind of uncertainty. Maybe it's just me, for some it ay come as a boon though if they are able to keep mental stability!


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@Itachi Interview postpone ho jaaye koi load nai, sirf prelims postpone na ho! People who qualifies prelims wont write the mains if they are already selected this time


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@Tempo_High_Hain bhai yeh batao, Hibernation karne ke kya kya fayde hote hain? Nuksaan toh samajh aa raha hai :P

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@Tempo_High_Hain kuch zada hi tempo high hain 


Steamer mei Vicks ki jagah Iodex dal jaye toh aisa hee hota hai... 😂


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Second Wave

 


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I don't know but the scenario all over the place was experienced by me last year around september- october. 

Being from small city and "too" closecommunity, the people here were too ignorant of the Virus last year. Every house had 3-4 positives. Every family saw atleast one of their dear one dying.  For me it was my uncle, my cousin nani, couple of friends' father and many more known ones were erased just like they weren't there in the first place. 


But can you guess after so much loss, what they are doing in this second wave- "Sab changa c".  Sab mahaul banaya jaa rha hai. Koi oxygen kami nahi hai, Arey apne vaccines lagwane hai .............

We humans have so much recency bias that we just let things go. We forget to show empathy towards people who are suffering. I am(was) no exception, I don't want/ed any exam to get postponed . I wanted EPFO exam to be held on 9th may, I still want prelims on 27th june. (Just because I am not facing any difficulty (as of now) ). 

only 7-8 days ago I got to understand the situation, I was ignorant. When I got realization the night was sleepless. 

It was tough for me last year when Prelims was nearing, though I was confident enough to clear, but Couldn't. Can't blame Pandemic only for that. 

Be ready for the exams whenever it is and don't  let situation to have upper hand. Once this wave is gone the world will be again about achievements. We will forget about these tough time (except people who would have faced serious loss), it won't matter why you failed, what circumstances were there when you couldn't do what you supposed to do.  Questions will be the same: you still preparing, why don't you try that exam, why don't you call your ex-company to give you job again. 


PS : The variant/s is/are different and danger now from last year and (for sure) we have marriage program in our family on 30th :P


Just wanted to highlight don't let your guard down - being it preparation(just for the sake of fear) or precautions. And if someone is sick in family or close one, try to help them, a week of preparation can be sacrificed for loved ones atleast for Prelims (due to its unpredictability)



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One reserved date from calendar is gone i.e. 29th August. Next reserved date left is oct 🤷🏼‍♂️

EiChan,
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@calvinhobbes if u look at the annual calendar cmse is already scheduled on 29th August and even after that the same day is also written as reserved....so no the date is not gone.....


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